Comfort First telegraphs sexual interest
Simply by approaching her and being nice, women of beauty assume you want something from them. If she doesn’t think you are selling something (or begging for change), she’ll reason it’s because you want to win her sexual favor. Even if you aren’t interested in her sexually, she’ll assume you are, just because you approached her in the same manner as the last half-a-dozen nice guys did that night.
Him; Nice boots
Her; I have a boyfriend
Most men mistake these short-term defenses for long-term personality flaws. This quite often turns men off and it is for this very reason that these strategies work. From them, it’s better to allow a bunch of men she doesn’t have attraction for to think she is a bitch than to have to sit there and listen to them all.
Him: What’s your name? Her: Get lost
Some woman may tolerate mildly entertaining nice guy dialogue, but once the conversation begins to grow mundane, she’ll excuse herself. Persistent nice guys will meet greater resistance as she becomes weary of his prolonged presence. Although playing a bitch can become a form of entertainment for some, most women with protection shields use them for good reason and are otherwise very nice people.
Him; Hi, how are you?
Her: Look, I’m not going to have sex with you.
If you don’t take the time to attract a woman first, you won’t give her a reason for her to want to even have a conversation with you. This will force her to raise her shields. Keep comfort building to mid-game, and don’t prematurely begin in the middle.
