Token Resistance
At higher levels of escalation, such as kissing, your hands will be moving much more freely around her body. (This is also a form of compliance testing.) Girls are programmed to give Token resistance to physical escalation; it’s an emotional response to avoid feeling like a slut. She wants tilings to happen, but she wants it to feel right and she doesn’t want it to be her fault For example, if you put your hand on her leg and leave it there, she may remove it. This is undesirable because you are now using her anti-slut defense to condition her to push you away.
But instead it you stroke your finger up her thigh as part of a routine and then your touch is gone, you have ended clean. She may even feel slight disappointment that the touch is gone. Now she is more being conditioned to feel dismay when your touch is gone.
She is also more accustomed to your touch and accepting of it. This works because of the consistency principle. She didn’t object because the touch was already gone. But by not objecting, some part of her has tacitly accepted that it’s not objectionable. In the future she is more likely to be consistent with the behavior and frame that she is already accustomed to when interacting with you. After all, she’s not a hypocrite
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