Style’s Kiss Tactic
When sitting arm-in-arm with your target, lean in and smell her hair and say, “You smell so flacking good, Fin trying so hard not to kiss you right now…”
Then, push her off you and say, “Now get off of me.” At this point, do a slight freeze out/IOD and wait for her to give you an IOI. If you did everything correctly up to this point, she will give you an IOI by re-initiating kino with you. After she does, lean in and kiss her.
You’ll know that she is ready to be kissed after she IOIs you, because you verbalized that you wanted to kiss her, and her IOIing you is a way of accepting this verbalization.
The above routine is a very good example of many of the principles of MM (kino escalation, compliance, punishment/reward, etc.) working in conjunction with one another. See how the woman enjoys this process when it unfolds?
When you lean in to smell her hair, you are giving her an IOI, but you also do not want to make her uncomfortable by escalating too fast. Therefore, you push her off of you. This in turn makes her uncomfortable. She notices that she is more uncomfortable not having kino with you than she was when she had kino with you, so she re-initiates kino. Then when you lean in to kiss her, this is an IOI Thus you are rewarding her good behavior (her kinoing you), and encouraging more such behavior as tilings progress.
This is how a venusian artist uses the one step forward two steps back principle to get the girl to chase him.
Mystery VH1 – Style’s Kiss Tactic
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