Mystery VH1- The Music Game

October 13, 2007

The Music Game
This game is very simple: share with each other those tilings that you like. For example, name a band you enjoy, and then say “your turn.”
She may not play along: “I don’t really like that band.”
You: “Just making conversation.” (Turn away a bit.. .slight freeze-out.)
Her: “So.. .what else do you listen tor”
You proceed: “I like.. .Pearl Jam.. .it’s my favourite band of the nineties. I really like that song ‘Garden,’ I remember making out with my high-school crush to that song.. .but I digress. Ok, now it’s your turn.”
Her: “Ok.. .I like.. .Ray Charles… I’ve always loved ‘Georgia on my Mind.’ Did you see that movie about him?”
You: “Yeah I just saw that the other night in fact. He has one of the most beautiful voices I’ve ever heard. Wow I’m kind of impressed; Ray Charles. I totally gave you insufficient credit. You have good taste in music.”
Her: “Why, thank you.”
You: “Ok my turn.. .I like.. Tool.”
Her: “I love Tool! I’ve been into them since their first CD.”
You: “No way, you like Tool? Not too many girls are into them. You know, I remember when their last CD came out. I was…” (Tell a story.) “.. .So I never saw that girl again, but I still have that seashell she gave me when it rained. Ok… now it’s your turn.

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Mystery VH1 – Style’s Kiss Tactic

October 9, 2007

Style’s Kiss Tactic
When sitting arm-in-arm with your target, lean in and smell her hair and say, “You smell so flacking good, Fin trying so hard not to kiss you right now…”
Then, push her off you and say, “Now get off of me.” At this point, do a slight freeze out/IOD and wait for her to give you an IOI. If you did everything correctly up to this point, she will give you an IOI by re-initiating kino with you. After she does, lean in and kiss her.
You’ll know that she is ready to be kissed after she IOIs you, because you verbalized that you wanted to kiss her, and her IOIing you is a way of accepting this verbalization.
The above routine is a very good example of many of the principles of MM (kino escalation, compliance, punishment/reward, etc.) working in conjunction with one another. See how the woman enjoys this process when it unfolds?
When you lean in to smell her hair, you are giving her an IOI, but you also do not want to make her uncomfortable by escalating too fast. Therefore, you push her off of you. This in turn makes her uncomfortable. She notices that she is more uncomfortable not having kino with you than she was when she had kino with you, so she re-initiates kino. Then when you lean in to kiss her, this is an IOI Thus you are rewarding her good behavior (her kinoing you), and encouraging more such behavior as tilings progress.
This is how a venusian artist uses the one step forward two steps back principle to get the girl to chase him.

Mystery VH1 – Style’s Kiss Tactic

October 9, 2007

Style’s Kiss Tactic
When sitting arm-in-arm with your target, lean in and smell her hair and say, “You smell so flacking good, Fin trying so hard not to kiss you right now…”
Then, push her off you and say, “Now get off of me.” At this point, do a slight freeze out/IOD and wait for her to give you an IOI. If you did everything correctly up to this point, she will give you an IOI by re-initiating kino with you. After she does, lean in and kiss her.
You’ll know that she is ready to be kissed after she IOIs you, because you verbalized that you wanted to kiss her, and her IOIing you is a way of accepting this verbalization.
The above routine is a very good example of many of the principles of MM (kino escalation, compliance, punishment/reward, etc.) working in conjunction with one another. See how the woman enjoys this process when it unfolds?
When you lean in to smell her hair, you are giving her an IOI, but you also do not want to make her uncomfortable by escalating too fast. Therefore, you push her off of you. This in turn makes her uncomfortable. She notices that she is more uncomfortable not having kino with you than she was when she had kino with you, so she re-initiates kino. Then when you lean in to kiss her, this is an IOI Thus you are rewarding her good behavior (her kinoing you), and encouraging more such behavior as tilings progress.
This is how a venusian artist uses the one step forward two steps back principle to get the girl to chase him.

Mystery VH1 – “Baby, we’ve got to slow this down..”

October 5, 2007

“Baby, we’ve got to slow this down..”
Some people think that it’s the man’s job to escalate, and the woman’s job is to resist. Instead, think of it as if it is the man’s job to do both. If you are constantly thing to get more kino, like getting yards on a football field, it telegraphs far too much interest and deprives her of the hot/cold, push/pull energy that she finds so compelling.
When you pull in close to a girl, there’s this tension in the air. At some point, if she feels too much discomfort, she will pull away. This isn’t what you want — you don’t want to condition her into a behavior of constantly pulling away from you. Rather, you want her conditioned to chase after you.
So, once that tension has been created, it’s now time to push her away. This might be physically (“get off me, geez”) or emotionally, such as using a backturn, false disqualifier or some other IOD. You might frame it as though you are the prize and you’re not going to let her get anywhere with you tonight ’cause you have work tomorrow.
One effect of this is that it spikes attraction when you push her away. She will respond more playfully to you now. Another effect is that comfort is created. She doesn’t feel like you’re trying to get something if you’re constantly pushing her away. This allows her to feel safe while having fun with you. She can allow the emotional stimulation to escalate instead of having to shut it off in self-defense. And the push makes it that much more stimulating for her when you do pull her back in.
For this reason, toss her hand away after thumb-wrestling or palm-reading. Devise a kino routine where you embrace her for a few seconds of role-playing, and then push her away. Mix signals.. .draw near to her saying that it would never work out between you, but stroke your finger down her cheek at the same time. Then turn away. Use body rocking m conjunction with IOIs, IODs, false-disqualifiers, role-playing, stones, and so on.
Someone could easily spend weeks or months playing with these ideas in the field. There is so much to explore.

Mystery VH1 – Token Resistance

September 22, 2007

Token Resistance
At higher levels of escalation, such as kissing, your hands will be moving much more freely around her body. (This is also a form of compliance testing.) Girls are programmed to give Token resistance to physical escalation; it’s an emotional response to avoid feeling like a slut. She wants tilings to happen, but she wants it to feel right and she doesn’t want it to be her fault For example, if you put your hand on her leg and leave it there, she may remove it. This is undesirable because you are now using her anti-slut defense to condition her to push you away.
But instead it you stroke your finger up her thigh as part of a routine and then your touch is gone, you have ended clean. She may even feel slight disappointment that the touch is gone. Now she is more being conditioned to feel dismay when your touch is gone.
She is also more accustomed to your touch and accepting of it. This works because of the consistency principle. She didn’t object because the touch was already gone. But by not objecting, some part of her has tacitly accepted that it’s not objectionable. In the future she is more likely to be consistent with the behavior and frame that she is already accustomed to when interacting with you. After all, she’s not a hypocrite

Mystery VH1 – Token Resistance

September 22, 2007

Token Resistance
At higher levels of escalation, such as kissing, your hands will be moving much more freely around her body. (This is also a form of compliance testing.) Girls are programmed to give Token resistance to physical escalation; it’s an emotional response to avoid feeling like a slut. She wants tilings to happen, but she wants it to feel right and she doesn’t want it to be her fault For example, if you put your hand on her leg and leave it there, she may remove it. This is undesirable because you are now using her anti-slut defense to condition her to push you away.
But instead it you stroke your finger up her thigh as part of a routine and then your touch is gone, you have ended clean. She may even feel slight disappointment that the touch is gone. Now she is more being conditioned to feel dismay when your touch is gone.
She is also more accustomed to your touch and accepting of it. This works because of the consistency principle. She didn’t object because the touch was already gone. But by not objecting, some part of her has tacitly accepted that it’s not objectionable. In the future she is more likely to be consistent with the behavior and frame that she is already accustomed to when interacting with you. After all, she’s not a hypocrite

Mystery VH1 – Sample Negs

September 20, 2007

Sample Negs
• YOU: “I don’t think we should get to know each other.” HER: “Why not?”
YOU: “I think you are just too much of a nice girl for me.”
• If your target says something even slightly rude you say, “You don’t get out much do you?”
• If a girl isn’t into anything active, use that as an opportunity to neg her by saying, “Get with the program. I’m into living life. Don’t you care about staying fit? just cause you are thin doesn’t mean you are toned you know. You have to consciously plan activities. That’s it… I’m your success coach … and we are going roller-blading (or rock climbing) this week.”
• If your target interrupts you, say, “Hello, I’m talking, geez” or, “Excuse me… may I finish my sentence first?” You then say to others in the group, “Is she always like that?”
• If you are asking a question to two women and the target answers you say, “I didn’t ask you. silly.”

Mystery VH1 – Comfort First telegraphs sexual interest

September 14, 2007

Comfort First telegraphs sexual interest

Simply by approaching her and being nice, women of beauty assume you want something from them. If she doesn’t think you are selling something (or begging for change), she’ll reason it’s because you want to win her sexual favor. Even if you aren’t interested in her sexually, she’ll assume you are, just because you approached her in the same manner as the last half-a-dozen nice guys did that night.

Him; Nice boots
Her; I have a boyfriend
Most men mistake these short-term defenses for long-term personality flaws. This quite often turns men off and it is for this very reason that these strategies work. From them, it’s better to allow a bunch of men she doesn’t have attraction for to think she is a bitch than to have to sit there and listen to them all.

Him: What’s your name? Her: Get lost
Some woman may tolerate mildly entertaining nice guy dialogue, but once the conversation begins to grow mundane, she’ll excuse herself. Persistent nice guys will meet greater resistance as she becomes weary of his prolonged presence. Although playing a bitch can become a form of entertainment for some, most women with protection shields use them for good reason and are otherwise very nice people.

Him; Hi, how are you?
Her: Look, I’m not going to have sex with you.
If you don’t take the time to attract a woman first, you won’t give her a reason for her to want to even have a conversation with you. This will force her to raise her shields. Keep comfort building to mid-game, and don’t prematurely begin in the middle.

Mystery VH1 – Compliance Threshold

September 11, 2007

Compliance Threshold
When choosing to align with people, we comply with their requests to a certain threshold. The more value that you represent to a woman, the more she wants to align with you — the more leeway you have when escalating. By using IODs to punish defiance, and IOIs to reward compliance, a venusian artist can quickly bring a woman to the compliance threshold.
The compliance threshold is the point of the interaction where she realizes that she has more fun if she complies! Once this happens, you have established control of the frame and she will follow your lead. This should happen in A2 or A3. If in C1 you are still getting defiance, then you are not really in C1 at all
Do not be afraid to overestimate your value. If you waste time trying to build value that you already have, when you should instead be compliance testing, you could blow yourself out of the set by creating negative compliance.
One venusian artist used to have a problem with Southern girls, because they were so nice that he felt he wasn’t sparking attraction, so he would over-neg to the point of obnoxiousness. Later he realized that those sets were already on, and all he was doing was creating resistance to his complia

Mystery VH1 – What are some other examples of gaining compliance?

September 10, 2007

What are some other examples of gaining compliance?
• Getting her to invest. (She goes to retrieve a drink for you, she spends some money on you, etc.)
• Getting her to move with you or bounce to another location.
• Locking her in. The longer a girl wears an item of yours, the more compliance you have. If the girl removes your item, she is defying.
• Social pressure. Get one of her peer group to tell her to be nice to you, or to give you an accomplishment introduction, and you will immediately gain much more compliance from her.
• People generally comply if it results in more fun, or gaining some benefit. We are inherently selfish.
• People will also comply if there is a threat A man with a gun gets more compliance than one with a hose.
Of course the venusian artist will never actually pull out a gun. But there are ways to make her feel slightly threatened if she fails to comply.